Have you ever encountered this frustrating little scenario? It’s one of those rare magically moments where fate has throw you together with the woman of your wildest dreams...maybe you are in the elevator together or she sits down next to you on the bus, or what ever. You want to say something, but try as you might, the right words just don’t come your way.
This situation is the norm not the exception. Unfortunately, despite the fact that there are women all around us who want to be picked up, most guys just don’t know what to say in those moments of opportunity.
There is this quote that says "It is better to be prepared and not have an opportunity, than to have an opportunity and not be prepared!" you see, most guys aren’t prepared for the opportunity! By learning a few good pick up lines, you can be prepared for the inevitable opportunity with the women of your dreams.(or even the women for the moment!)
I believe that pick up lines have gotten a bad rap due largely to the popular, but crude and truthfully degrading, pick up lines being used by clueless clods.
We have all heard them, haven’t we? "Excuse me, are those space pants you’re wearing? Because your ass is out of this world!" or "are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only ten I see." Help me, Jesus!
Basically, a good pick up line allows you to break the ice without being rude or offensive to the woman and not sounding corny or ridiculous. The main purpose of a pick up line is to break the ice and get introduced to the woman.
The biggest mistake guys usually make when trying to break the ice with a woman is to try you come up with the perfect super smooth line that is sure to have her eating out of their hands. Since there is no such a line they usually wait too long and then the moment has passed them by.
There are basically three ways to start a conversation with a woman. One, talk about her. Two, talk about yourself. Three, talk about the situation you both are in.
You should know right now that starting off a conversation talking about yourself is the least effective way to start off a conversation with a woman. It may surprise you, but in the early stages of getting to know a woman, she isn’t interested in talking about you.
Women, just like men, I suppose, love to talk about themselves. They love to be able to express themselves and be understood so, starting off a conversation talking about her is the best bet.
Also, talking about the situation is also effective because you are both involved in the situation. Let’s say that you are stuck waiting in line to re-new your license at the dept of motor vehicles. You can say "These lines at dmv are the worst!" to an attractive blonde standing in front of you. Most likely, she will reply "Yes, they are. I hate coming down here!"
Once the ice is broken, it’s fairly easy to keep a conversation going. The hardest part in talking to women is just breaking the ice. That’s half the battle right there.
Here are a few pick up lines to get you started.
HI. (The greatest pick up line of all)
Excuse me, are you waiting for the 609 bus? (To the beauty waiting at the bus stop.)
Are you french? (Because she has such pretty exotic features.)
Do you model? (To a tall elegant looking woman)
Excuse me, did you ever work at(you fill in the job)
Then main thing to remember that it’s not so important what you say(as long as it’s not stupid or insulting)but that you seize the day and say something. If you don’t , that moment will pass you by.
This situation is the norm not the exception. Unfortunately, despite the fact that there are women all around us who want to be picked up, most guys just don’t know what to say in those moments of opportunity.
There is this quote that says "It is better to be prepared and not have an opportunity, than to have an opportunity and not be prepared!" you see, most guys aren’t prepared for the opportunity! By learning a few good pick up lines, you can be prepared for the inevitable opportunity with the women of your dreams.(or even the women for the moment!)
I believe that pick up lines have gotten a bad rap due largely to the popular, but crude and truthfully degrading, pick up lines being used by clueless clods.
We have all heard them, haven’t we? "Excuse me, are those space pants you’re wearing? Because your ass is out of this world!" or "are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only ten I see." Help me, Jesus!
Basically, a good pick up line allows you to break the ice without being rude or offensive to the woman and not sounding corny or ridiculous. The main purpose of a pick up line is to break the ice and get introduced to the woman.
The biggest mistake guys usually make when trying to break the ice with a woman is to try you come up with the perfect super smooth line that is sure to have her eating out of their hands. Since there is no such a line they usually wait too long and then the moment has passed them by.
There are basically three ways to start a conversation with a woman. One, talk about her. Two, talk about yourself. Three, talk about the situation you both are in.
You should know right now that starting off a conversation talking about yourself is the least effective way to start off a conversation with a woman. It may surprise you, but in the early stages of getting to know a woman, she isn’t interested in talking about you.
Women, just like men, I suppose, love to talk about themselves. They love to be able to express themselves and be understood so, starting off a conversation talking about her is the best bet.
Also, talking about the situation is also effective because you are both involved in the situation. Let’s say that you are stuck waiting in line to re-new your license at the dept of motor vehicles. You can say "These lines at dmv are the worst!" to an attractive blonde standing in front of you. Most likely, she will reply "Yes, they are. I hate coming down here!"
Once the ice is broken, it’s fairly easy to keep a conversation going. The hardest part in talking to women is just breaking the ice. That’s half the battle right there.
Here are a few pick up lines to get you started.
HI. (The greatest pick up line of all)
Excuse me, are you waiting for the 609 bus? (To the beauty waiting at the bus stop.)
Are you french? (Because she has such pretty exotic features.)
Do you model? (To a tall elegant looking woman)
Excuse me, did you ever work at(you fill in the job)
Then main thing to remember that it’s not so important what you say(as long as it’s not stupid or insulting)but that you seize the day and say something. If you don’t , that moment will pass you by.
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