The first best way how not to pick up women is not not try to pick up women. That might seem obvious enough,but there are tons of guys who bitch and complain about not having any women to date,but never even try to pick up a woman. They see hottie after hottie pass them by,but never muster the courage to atleast try to pick up a woman. They seem to be waiting for the day when things will just fall into place and life will deliver them the woman of their dreams. Well,life on planet Earth dosen't work like that. As a man ,it is your responsibility to take the intiative and go after the women you want. Those who wait,will masturbate!
Another way to remain without a woman is to stay in your lonely room and never go back out after work. Does this scenario sound familiar? You arrive at your house from work,tired and hungry. You turn on the tv,make yourself something to eat and basically veg-out for a few hours. Then you pull out an adult magazine or maybe view some internet porn and jack off. You know you should go back out to try and meet a girl,but you're tired and the game is on,so later for that. soon it's time to go to bed and get ready for another day of work at a job you hate. Man,if only you had a woman who you could share your ups and downs with.
Listen,if you stay held up in your room day and and day out,how can you expect to meet anyone? You basically have no chance of picking up a woman. When you begin to venture outside,you automatically multiply your chances of success with women. Magic can happen just by getting out of the house. If you talk,you can meet a woman. Say hi to women. Compliment women. Make contact. A certain amount of women are bound to like you.
Playing it safe and not taking chances is an excellent way how not to pick up a woman. If you hold back from asking a woman for her phone number or for a date,you will have no love life. When you bet on yourself,you will be amazed at your success. Sure,you will face a little rejection,but the benefits far out way the risks.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Sunday, December 13, 2009
How to be a player
The ultimate success formula for being a player!
There’s really no great mystery to meeting women. In fact it’s rather
simple and fairly easy to do! To meet women you basically have to:
1. Know what to say. You may have heard a lot of negative things
about opening lines,but the fact of the matter is they’re easiest way
to meet women on the spur of the moment! I think opening lines
have gotten a bad name due to some of those lame,cheesy pick up
lines guys use to try and score with women. The best pick up lines
are the ones that don’t sound like a pick up line. You’ll get some
great opening lines in the coming chapters.
2. Make the approach. You must exercise that extra 5% of courage
and go right up to women and start talking!
3. Make the proposition. After you’ve broken the ice with a woman,
found out her name, complimented her and established some
rapport with her it’s time to ask for her telephone number.
4. Be persistent! Not ever woman you approach will give you her
phone number or even the time of day! Success with women is a
numbers games. The more women you approach and try to pick up
the greater the odds are of your ultimate success
There’s really no great mystery to meeting women. In fact it’s rather
simple and fairly easy to do! To meet women you basically have to:
1. Know what to say. You may have heard a lot of negative things
about opening lines,but the fact of the matter is they’re easiest way
to meet women on the spur of the moment! I think opening lines
have gotten a bad name due to some of those lame,cheesy pick up
lines guys use to try and score with women. The best pick up lines
are the ones that don’t sound like a pick up line. You’ll get some
great opening lines in the coming chapters.
2. Make the approach. You must exercise that extra 5% of courage
and go right up to women and start talking!
3. Make the proposition. After you’ve broken the ice with a woman,
found out her name, complimented her and established some
rapport with her it’s time to ask for her telephone number.
4. Be persistent! Not ever woman you approach will give you her
phone number or even the time of day! Success with women is a
numbers games. The more women you approach and try to pick up
the greater the odds are of your ultimate success
Thursday, November 5, 2009
3 fantastic tips on how to succeed with women.
Number one. Show your romantic interest right away! One of the biggest mistakes most men make with women they are attracted to is to try to be friends first with a woman then turn that friendship into a romance. Woman decide rather quickly on which guys will be their friends and which guys will be their lovers.
The men who show their romantic interest up-front usually end up in the lover position in a woman’s life. The limp timid guys who beat around the bush usually end up as the lowly friend. Which do you want to be?
Number two. Compliment them. This is directly related to showing your romantic interest up-front. By giving a woman sincere compliments you immediately show her your romantic interest. Guys who are just friends don’t compliment women, at least not in a way that let’s them know that they find them attractive.
Number three. Maintain good eye contact. Don’t confuse this with engaging a woman in a staring contest! Just hold eye contact with a woman ever so often while you talk to her. Most guys tend to look away or avoid making solid eye contact with women they are attracted to.
The men who show their romantic interest up-front usually end up in the lover position in a woman’s life. The limp timid guys who beat around the bush usually end up as the lowly friend. Which do you want to be?
Number two. Compliment them. This is directly related to showing your romantic interest up-front. By giving a woman sincere compliments you immediately show her your romantic interest. Guys who are just friends don’t compliment women, at least not in a way that let’s them know that they find them attractive.
Number three. Maintain good eye contact. Don’t confuse this with engaging a woman in a staring contest! Just hold eye contact with a woman ever so often while you talk to her. Most guys tend to look away or avoid making solid eye contact with women they are attracted to.
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Discover How This One remarkably Simple Tip Can Explode Your Success With Women!
There are tons of excellent books out there concerning how to be successful with women. I have read a lot of them and have really gotten some fantastic advice and tips on being more successful with women. Sometimes, how-ever, you can make the whole process of meeting and seducing women so complicated that most men are immobilized because of information over-load!
Sometimes the best ideas are really the simplest ideas because they get you to do the one thing that is absolutely critical in succeeding with women-taking action! Here is one such piece of advice. In order to become successful with women you have to exercise that extra 5% of courage!
I know that may sound so obvious that it should not be necessary to even mention it, but when you take into account all of the really detailed and confusing advice on meeting women, this one piece of advice is often over looked.
You see, in the real world, the most successful guys are the ones who simply go up to the women they are attracted to and start talking. Do they bomb out a lot? Sure, but success with women is a numbers game any way. The more women you try to pick up, the more successful you will be just of the sheer volume of women you approach.
You can learn the best pick up women advice ever written, but if all you do is stand there and think about what you should say or do, that opportunity to meet that fine women will quickly pass you by. You see, most guys wait eternally for the perfect moment to approach that woman, but that perfect moment will never come! You will never feel 100% certain of success. Those who do wait, usually wait for-ever!
Courage does not mean that you are fearless. Real courage means that you make the choice to take action in spite of your fear! Most men, even the who are super successful with women experience a little tingle of fear in the moment right before they decide to go for it!
The great thing about choosing to exercise that extra 5% of courage is that you are not required to radically change your-self or your life in order to be successful with women.
Exercising that extra 5% of courage means maintaining eye contact when a woman looks at you instead of looking away. It means saying "hi" instead of playing it cool. It means complimenting her instead of playing it safe. It means asking her out instead of letting her walk away.
You do not have the get your-self to be the epitome of self confidence and positive self belief in order to succeed with women. Most of us can hold our own with a woman once we have made contact. That is the hardest part. Once you make a habit out of exercising that extra 5% of courage to meet women, you will be amazed at how successful you will become with picking up women.
Sometimes the best ideas are really the simplest ideas because they get you to do the one thing that is absolutely critical in succeeding with women-taking action! Here is one such piece of advice. In order to become successful with women you have to exercise that extra 5% of courage!
I know that may sound so obvious that it should not be necessary to even mention it, but when you take into account all of the really detailed and confusing advice on meeting women, this one piece of advice is often over looked.
You see, in the real world, the most successful guys are the ones who simply go up to the women they are attracted to and start talking. Do they bomb out a lot? Sure, but success with women is a numbers game any way. The more women you try to pick up, the more successful you will be just of the sheer volume of women you approach.
You can learn the best pick up women advice ever written, but if all you do is stand there and think about what you should say or do, that opportunity to meet that fine women will quickly pass you by. You see, most guys wait eternally for the perfect moment to approach that woman, but that perfect moment will never come! You will never feel 100% certain of success. Those who do wait, usually wait for-ever!
Courage does not mean that you are fearless. Real courage means that you make the choice to take action in spite of your fear! Most men, even the who are super successful with women experience a little tingle of fear in the moment right before they decide to go for it!
The great thing about choosing to exercise that extra 5% of courage is that you are not required to radically change your-self or your life in order to be successful with women.
Exercising that extra 5% of courage means maintaining eye contact when a woman looks at you instead of looking away. It means saying "hi" instead of playing it cool. It means complimenting her instead of playing it safe. It means asking her out instead of letting her walk away.
You do not have the get your-self to be the epitome of self confidence and positive self belief in order to succeed with women. Most of us can hold our own with a woman once we have made contact. That is the hardest part. Once you make a habit out of exercising that extra 5% of courage to meet women, you will be amazed at how successful you will become with picking up women.
Monday, September 29, 2008
Success With Women:The Right Pick Up Line Will Work!
Have you ever encountered this frustrating little scenario? It’s one of those rare magically moments where fate has throw you together with the woman of your wildest dreams...maybe you are in the elevator together or she sits down next to you on the bus, or what ever. You want to say something, but try as you might, the right words just don’t come your way.
This situation is the norm not the exception. Unfortunately, despite the fact that there are women all around us who want to be picked up, most guys just don’t know what to say in those moments of opportunity.
There is this quote that says "It is better to be prepared and not have an opportunity, than to have an opportunity and not be prepared!" you see, most guys aren’t prepared for the opportunity! By learning a few good pick up lines, you can be prepared for the inevitable opportunity with the women of your dreams.(or even the women for the moment!)
I believe that pick up lines have gotten a bad rap due largely to the popular, but crude and truthfully degrading, pick up lines being used by clueless clods.
We have all heard them, haven’t we? "Excuse me, are those space pants you’re wearing? Because your ass is out of this world!" or "are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only ten I see." Help me, Jesus!
Basically, a good pick up line allows you to break the ice without being rude or offensive to the woman and not sounding corny or ridiculous. The main purpose of a pick up line is to break the ice and get introduced to the woman.
The biggest mistake guys usually make when trying to break the ice with a woman is to try you come up with the perfect super smooth line that is sure to have her eating out of their hands. Since there is no such a line they usually wait too long and then the moment has passed them by.
There are basically three ways to start a conversation with a woman. One, talk about her. Two, talk about yourself. Three, talk about the situation you both are in.
You should know right now that starting off a conversation talking about yourself is the least effective way to start off a conversation with a woman. It may surprise you, but in the early stages of getting to know a woman, she isn’t interested in talking about you.
Women, just like men, I suppose, love to talk about themselves. They love to be able to express themselves and be understood so, starting off a conversation talking about her is the best bet.
Also, talking about the situation is also effective because you are both involved in the situation. Let’s say that you are stuck waiting in line to re-new your license at the dept of motor vehicles. You can say "These lines at dmv are the worst!" to an attractive blonde standing in front of you. Most likely, she will reply "Yes, they are. I hate coming down here!"
Once the ice is broken, it’s fairly easy to keep a conversation going. The hardest part in talking to women is just breaking the ice. That’s half the battle right there.
Here are a few pick up lines to get you started.
HI. (The greatest pick up line of all)
Excuse me, are you waiting for the 609 bus? (To the beauty waiting at the bus stop.)
Are you french? (Because she has such pretty exotic features.)
Do you model? (To a tall elegant looking woman)
Excuse me, did you ever work at(you fill in the job)
Then main thing to remember that it’s not so important what you say(as long as it’s not stupid or insulting)but that you seize the day and say something. If you don’t , that moment will pass you by.
This situation is the norm not the exception. Unfortunately, despite the fact that there are women all around us who want to be picked up, most guys just don’t know what to say in those moments of opportunity.
There is this quote that says "It is better to be prepared and not have an opportunity, than to have an opportunity and not be prepared!" you see, most guys aren’t prepared for the opportunity! By learning a few good pick up lines, you can be prepared for the inevitable opportunity with the women of your dreams.(or even the women for the moment!)
I believe that pick up lines have gotten a bad rap due largely to the popular, but crude and truthfully degrading, pick up lines being used by clueless clods.
We have all heard them, haven’t we? "Excuse me, are those space pants you’re wearing? Because your ass is out of this world!" or "are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only ten I see." Help me, Jesus!
Basically, a good pick up line allows you to break the ice without being rude or offensive to the woman and not sounding corny or ridiculous. The main purpose of a pick up line is to break the ice and get introduced to the woman.
The biggest mistake guys usually make when trying to break the ice with a woman is to try you come up with the perfect super smooth line that is sure to have her eating out of their hands. Since there is no such a line they usually wait too long and then the moment has passed them by.
There are basically three ways to start a conversation with a woman. One, talk about her. Two, talk about yourself. Three, talk about the situation you both are in.
You should know right now that starting off a conversation talking about yourself is the least effective way to start off a conversation with a woman. It may surprise you, but in the early stages of getting to know a woman, she isn’t interested in talking about you.
Women, just like men, I suppose, love to talk about themselves. They love to be able to express themselves and be understood so, starting off a conversation talking about her is the best bet.
Also, talking about the situation is also effective because you are both involved in the situation. Let’s say that you are stuck waiting in line to re-new your license at the dept of motor vehicles. You can say "These lines at dmv are the worst!" to an attractive blonde standing in front of you. Most likely, she will reply "Yes, they are. I hate coming down here!"
Once the ice is broken, it’s fairly easy to keep a conversation going. The hardest part in talking to women is just breaking the ice. That’s half the battle right there.
Here are a few pick up lines to get you started.
HI. (The greatest pick up line of all)
Excuse me, are you waiting for the 609 bus? (To the beauty waiting at the bus stop.)
Are you french? (Because she has such pretty exotic features.)
Do you model? (To a tall elegant looking woman)
Excuse me, did you ever work at(you fill in the job)
Then main thing to remember that it’s not so important what you say(as long as it’s not stupid or insulting)but that you seize the day and say something. If you don’t , that moment will pass you by.
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